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For Things to Change, YOU Must Change!

Thank you all for tuning in. Now it's time to get down to business. I'm going to piss some of you off, and I'm going to hurt some feelings with this post. If you're all in your feelings, I suggest you click out of this blog right now because it's not meant for you. This is not meant for cupcakes and those who are emotionally weak.

Still here? Let's get into it.

Some of you need to change. Period. End of story. You may be okay with who you are right now, and you're expecting others around you to accept you for who you are, whether you're morbidly obese, arrogant, lazy, or sloppy-looking. Some of you simply need to change.

If you're morbidly obese and you expect people to accept you for who you are, I have bad news for you. It's never going to happen. People will not accept you because you are fat and miserable. If you're happy to be obese, that's your business. More power to you. If you are a self-loathing individual, you deserve to be made fun of. If you don't respect yourself, why the hell should anyone else respect you? Fucking get over yourself, hit the gym, eat a proper diet, and stop bitching about your weight. Also, you're never going to attract the opposite sex (unless, of course, that someone is desperate and can't attract anyone, either), if you don't love yourself. Right?

Some of you need to dress better. You don't have to go out and buy the most expensive clothing. That's stupid and irresponsible, especially when you can't afford it. There are plenty of discount stores you can shop from, and there are plenty of online shops to choose from. Some of you are just too fucking lazy. You don't look presentable, and you expect to draw positive attention. You expect others to not judge you based on your looks when you know that people will judge you based on how you dress. If you dress like a bum, chances are you are a bum. If you dress like a slut, chances are you are a slut. If you dress like a thug... you get my point.

Some of you simply need a hobby. There are plenty to choose from. Whether you are an extrovert or an introvert, it doesn't matter. You expect others to accept you, but you're boring. If you don't have any hobbies, you're boring. If all you do is sit on your porch, sit on your couch and watch television everyday, or drink like a fish, you are boring. If you're on your phones all day, you are boring. Believe me when I tell you that I don't want to be around you, and not many people want that, either. Go for a run. If you hate running, go for a walk. Don't bitch about it. Do it. Go to the gym. Work on a project. I recommend puzzles. Go to a charity event. A lot of you are just too fucking boring.

No, going to bars and nightclubs do not count as hobbies, and you are boring people if this is your idea of fun. I have said this before, and I will say it again. Show me someone who can have fun WITHOUT drinking alcohol, and I'll show you someone I'd love to hang out with.

Also, sex is not a hobby. People make it a hobby because they have no self-control. Don't get me wrong. Yes, it feels great to get laid, but if this is all you want to do, you are a boring fucking person.

Some of you need to change your attitudes. Some of you are arrogant and think you're so much better than everyone. While I encourage everyone to walk like they own the fucking place, and they should, if you don't know how to treat people with respect, you do not deserve respect. Walking around like you own the place does not mean you treat others like shit. Would you like that if your boss did this? No, I don't think so. You'd call him a dick. Treat others with respect. You don't have to like the people you deal with, and that's okay. I don't like everyone I deal with, either, and they probably don't like me. If there's no respect shown from you, do not expect to get it in return. No one owes you anything.

Some of you need to respect yourselves. You call yourselves "broken." Some of you might have gone through some shit. Divorce. Abuse. Loss of loved ones. I get it. We all have gone through some shit. Guess what... it's your fucking problem. Again, no one owes you anything. The world doesn't owe you shit. What you're dealing with is your problem, so stop blaming people for this and for that. Go fucking do something about it. If you are broken, I have two pieces of advice for you... make that three pieces.

  1. Get out of your head. Not everything is about you. The world does not revolve around you, and no one is going to feel sorry for you. I certainly won't. I'll listen to you, go "Oh, I'm sorry to hear that," and then I'll move on with my life. I'm sure most of us will do the same. If you're expecting empathy everyday, you have a problem.

  2. Pray about it. Prayer is powerful. Don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.

  3. Seek help. There are people who are actually qualified to help you. Get some professional help. There is no reason any of you should be broken.

Was this helpful enough? If not, then you should've clicked out of this blog. I do hope this helps. I wish I can tell you your life will be easier, and I wish I can tell you that things are going to get better, but for some of you, I'd be giving you false hope. If you want things to get better, that depends on you. What will you do?

Until next time, God bless.

The Freedom Runner


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